My Best Advice

I hate to hate it... but I hate when folks LET themselves get into a situation where they feel they have an obligation they don't want to have. If you don't want to do something, then DON'T. For most situations, it's not being mean, or inconsiderate. It's actually down right treating thsese folks how they treat you! To people who complain about the "favor" they just have to accomplishment, I can only say: The only thing you HAVE to do is stay Black and die!