PSA: Kids R Cute! Claim Your Kids!

You think you know someone...have shared many a conversation with them...maybe go down separate paths for a while.. Only to find out they have a child! What is wrong with folk today? Especially young Black men in Atlanta. I have heard notorious stories of men with "hidden children" back in their hometowns. I don't understand the need to "hide" or "leave out the truth" about children. Yes, people don't need to know everything, but your child is your family. When you are asked about the makeup of your family, you should include him/her. If you are asked what you did when you visited your folks, you should mention you visited your child. When your baby momma comes to town so the child can see his/her father, you should be truthful. I believe women of today's young generation are understanding. Shoot, we are almost used to it. It is surprising to meet a 33-yr old without children. It may be more desirable, but we are also accepting. Better yet, we understand and some of us even like kids! In short, it's not really such a big deal. If you are afraid to tell your love interest about your child, if anything telling that person should serve as a test. A woman with true character really trying to get to know you would accept the fact that you are a father, and perhaps see that you are even a more dynamic person because of it.